In this episode, we explore the role of desire and wanting in the Alchemy journey. While some spiritual traditions teach desirelessness, Alchemy actually begins with igniting your passion and understanding what you truly want from life. This episode clarifies why wanting isn’t something to transcend—it’s the fuel that powers transformation. We discuss the Nine Stages of Alchemy, the concept of “un-peopling” for clarity, and why the Alchemists in the caves knew that the real work starts with ordinary human nature, not transcendent experiences.
Key Themes:
- Desire as fuel, not the enemy
- Why Alchemy doesn’t ask you to kill your passion
- Beyond the “spiritual bypass”
- The Alchemist caves and retreating from distractions
- Beginner’s mind
- The Nine Stages of Alchemy as a roadmap
- Stage one: Is your life flowing or is it hard?
- Stage two: What are you guarding against?
- Stage three: What did you inherit?
- Why the fast track doesn’t work (and why that’s good news)
- The role of Wood energy in forward momentum
- What “un-peopling” means and why Alchemists needed it
Free Meditation — Start Here
What Do I Really Want? (20-minute guided meditation)
- Access: AlchemyLearningCenter.com/want
- How to use: Do this meditation 2-3 times if nothing comes up the first time. There’s no pass or fail. You’re just slowing down and opening to what your heart truly wants.
Homework for Listeners
#1: Notice How You Reach
- Catch yourself trying to skip ahead
- Are you looking for shortcuts or the fast track?
- Are you trying to bypass steps?
- No judgment—just observe
#2: Name Something You’re Still Guarding Against
- Reflect on what you’re protecting against
- You might think you already dealt with it (through therapy, meditation, etc.), but notice if you’re still triggered
- Don’t try to fix it; just admit it’s there
- This observation is often the most important part of the work
#3: Free Meditation
- What Do I Really Want? (20 minutes, guided)
- Give yourself permission to want whatever you actually want
- If nothing comes up the first time, do it again
- There’s no pass or fail—you’re just slowing down
- Access: AlchemyLearningCenter.com/want
Resources & Links
Learning Programs & Courses
From Seeker to Alchemist (Self-Paced Online Program)
- A self-paced online program for anyone new to or deepening their alchemy practice
- Includes: Nine Stages of Alchemy, modules, and exercises you can do at home at your own pace
- Status: Almost complete (launching soon)
- Link: AlchemyLearningCenter.com/courses/from-seeker-to-alchemist
Alchemy Life Strategy Sessions
- 1-on-1 sessions with Jaye
- Focus: Applying the Nine Stages to your life, building momentum, and discovering ease
- Learn more: AlchemyLearningCenter.com
Alchemy Learning Center
- Full catalog of courses, workshops, and resources
- Website: AlchemyLearningCenter.com
Books
Cultivating the Thirteen Ghost Points (by Leta Herman & Jaye McElroy)
- Available: Soft cover edition (newly released for wider accessibility)
- Where to buy: Amazon and other major retailers
- Special campaign: Leave a review and receive Inspired Action Alchemy or Alchemy Learning Center swag (T-shirts, hats, mugs, including the limited edition “Gui Are People Too” tee)
- How to participate: Send review screenshot to leta@inspiredactionpodcast.com or jaye@inspiredactionpodcast.com
Connecting Your Circle (by Leta Herman & Jaye McElroy) — FREE
- What it covers: How to balance all Five Elements and become flexible and fluid in any situation
- Access: AlchemyLearningCenter.com/connecting-your-circle
- Also available: In soft cover on Amazon
Other books by Jaye McElroy & Leta Herman:
- Through the Mystery Gate
- The Energy of Love
- The Big Little Gua Sha Book
Previous Episodes Referenced
Episode 147: Plant Spirit Alchemy with Brittany Chowning
- Topics: Connecting with plant spirits, natural world wisdom, multidimensional travel, shamanic journeys
- Workshop: 3-hour live workshop on using artemisia (mugwort) and plant spirits to enhance alchemical journeys
- Pre-Order in the Alchemy Learning Center
Episodes 140 & 141: Alchemy Stone Medicine with Mikhael Oskarrson
- Topics: Connecting with stone spirits, Alchemy Stone Medicine, natural world wisdom, multidimensional travel
- FREE Alchemy Stone Medicine Workshop: AlchemyLearningCenter.com
Upcoming Episodes
Episode 149: Rebellious Qi — What Happens When You Declare What You Want
- Teaser: The moment you identify what you really want, your mind builds a case against it (I can’t do it, I don’t have enough money/time, etc.). This is called “rebellious qi” in Chinese medicine—and it’s not a metaphor, it’s a real physical phenomenon you can work with.
Episode 150: The Wu Wei State
- Teaser: A major milestone episode diving deep into Wu Wei (inspired action) and pure presence—the state Jaye and Leta work toward in their Alchemy practice.
Quotes & Memorable Moments
“The passion or the wanting isn’t the challenge here. The passion is the fuel. It’s what we do with it that gets interesting.”
“There is only now. That’s all we have—every day of our lives, all we have is now.”
“Nobody ever built anything because they were content.”
“The ordinary human work in the beginning levels of Alchemy brings the most transformation, and quite quickly in the big scheme of things.”
“When you spend a lot of time with your monsters, you begin to see right through them—they’re not that scary, big monster you thought they were.”
“Some things don’t move when you just sit with them. They move by being met.”
“No hurry, no right, no wrong, no good, no bad, no fast or slow. It’s what you bring to it.”
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The Five Elements Quick Reference
- Wood: Growth, forward movement, vision, planning, anger (blocked), decisiveness
- Fire: Joy, passion, connection, anxiety/inflammation (blocked), intimacy
- Earth: Grounding, nourishment, thought, worry (blocked), stability
- Metal: Structure, order, respect, judgmentalne (blocked), letting go
- Water: Flow, frozen (blocked), wisdom, rest, deep listening
Read more in Connecting Your Circle or explore courses on the Five Elements at the Alchemy Learning Center.
Guest & Host Information
Hosts:
- Jaye McElroy — Co-creator, Inspired Action Alchemy podcast; author, Cultivating the Thirteen Ghost Points, Through the Mystery Gate, Connecting Your Circle, The Energy of Love, and the Big Little Gua Sha Book; Alchemy teacher and Alchemy Life Strategist
- Leta Herman — Co-creator, Inspired Action Alchemy podcast; author, Cultivating the Thirteen Ghost Points, Through the Mystery Gate, Connecting Your Circle, The Energy of Love, and the Big Little Gua Sha Book; Alchemy teacher, Five-Elements specialist, and Alchemy/Chinese Medicine practitioner
Podcast Details
- Podcast Name: Inspired Action Alchemy
- Hosts: Jaye McElroy & Leta Herman
- Frequency: Weekly (ish)
- Duration: 25-45 minutes per episode
- Format: Conversations, teachings, interviews, and guided meditations
- Distribution: Libsyn, Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and all major podcast platforms
- Website: InspiredActionPodcast.com or AlchemyLearningCenter.com
- Contact:
Next Steps
- Take the meditation: AlchemyLearningCenter.com/want
- Do the homework: Notice how you reach, name what you’re guarding
- Leave a review to help others find the podcast
- Tune in next week (Episode 149) for Rebellious Qi
- Explore the Learning Center: AlchemyLearningCenter.com
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Welcome to Inspired Action Alchemy.
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This is where we have motivational,
inspiring conversations and interviews
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that we hope you’ll enjoy listening to.
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Join us and other Inspired
Alchemists-in-training on this
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alchemical transformational journey
Otherwise known as a podcast.
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Welcome back to the Inspired
Action Alchemy podcast.
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This is pod 148.
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My name is Jaye, and I’m here with
my co-host, as always, Leta Herman.
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Hello, Inspired Alchemists.
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Hello, Inspired Alchemists.
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Yay, we’re so happy that you’re here.
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We’re gonna slow it down, Leta.
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We’re gonna take our time today, and I’m
trying to give you a little hint about
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what the podcast is gonna be about today.
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Because, I always like to slow down.
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Oh, yeah, Not.
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Yeah, I just thought it would be… see
if you could pick up that hint in what
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you would say about- Oh … slowing down.
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I wish I was slow, but
I’m just super fast.
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Super fast.
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Yeah.
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okay, so before we begin, let’s do
a little recap of the last podcast,
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number 147, which was on s- Plant
Spirit Alchemy with Brittany Chowning.
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It was so much fun.
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A lot of people loved it.
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it was really great to
have her on the show.
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It was really great.
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I loved having Brittany on the show.
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She connects in such a deep way with
the natural world, and with plants
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in particular, as do I, and we loved
teaching a live workshop together with
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Jaye back at the end of July on how
the plant spirit world could really
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enhance our alchemical journeys.
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We used Artemisia as a starting place,
the plant we use for moxibustion in
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Chinese medicine, so that was super cool.
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That was cool.
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We did a, little bit of Multi-D,
multidimensional traveling.
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We did shamanic journeys, and that was
a four-hour workshop that we taught,
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so you can listen to the podcast.
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And if you’re interested, that
four-hour workshop now lives in
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the alchemylearningcenter.com.
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So if you ever wanna
check it out, it is there.
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And again, it was really fun to talk
about those things that we don’t
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often talk about with other people.
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We talked about how the spirits
of the natural world, the plants,
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the animals, even the stones, fro-
Especially the stones … especially
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the stones, for those of you
who’ve done Alchemy Stone Medicine.
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Alchemists.
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And we have a… we actually have an
episode on Alchemy Stone Medicine.
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All of those natural beings,
they’re, they’re much slower than
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humans are, so to connect with
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Well, you don’t really
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You can, like, literally just slow down.
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Is that what it feels
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It’s actually… Yes.
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I have to talk like that to slow down.
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Okay, I’m glad that you
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Yes.
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But before we get into today’s podcast
episode, let’s just update everyone on
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this another cool thing that we did.
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we’re almost done with it.
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It’s a new program which you can
do fast or slow- … like Leta.
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it’s called From Seeker to Alchemist,
and it’s a self-paced program online
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in the learning connec- in the
learning center, and it’s almost done.
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And it’s designed for people to…
It’s like a companion for anyone who’s
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into Alchemy or maybe listening to
this podcast who wanna know more about
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the nine stages of Alchemy, which
we talk about almost every episode.
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And to really do the Alchemy
yourself with those self-paced
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modules, exercises at home.
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So, you know, we’re, we’re excited
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this is life-changing work, so
this is a way that you can start
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to engage that on your own at home.
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Yeah, we hope it’s inspiring, and we
really love to bring Alchemy out in
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the world, and this is a great way
for someone who’s brand new, to really
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start to understand what Alchemy’s
about, the nine stages, and how you…
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like you said, how you can bring
it in as, like, an immersion
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into your life at your own pace.
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And if you stay to the end of this
podcast episode, we also have a free
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meditation for you today which goes
with the theme of today, and that
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meditation’s called What Do I Really Want?
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And it’s one of the meditations
we love to start everyone with
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in Alchemy, so that’s cool.
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If you don’t have the answer to
that, then check out this meditation.
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I love that meditation.
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You could call on it any time.
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It’s not just a one and done.
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It’s just another tool in your Alchemy
toolbox- Yes … of self-cultivation.
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Yes.
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And we also want to invite you… We’re
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Learning Center swag, like a T-shirt.
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It’s called, Gui are People Too.
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And- And for those of you who
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bringing more Alchemy out in the world,
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I can’t wait.
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And we’re gonna slow you down.
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But what we wanna talk about
today is- What do we want?
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What, why do we want it,
and why do we want it now?
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Yes, just like that Queen song.
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I want it all, I want
it all, I want it all.
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I want it now.
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Well, yeah.
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Not, my best Freddie Mercury.
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It should be, what do I really want?
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What do I really want?
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What do I really… There you go.
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I really want it now.
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I don’t know what it
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So that, oh, that was your inner Freddie.
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I don’t know.
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I, I’ve heard Freddie a little better
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But I do love Freddie Mercury Yes.
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He was such a great guy.
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okay, so let’s go with, you know, I
want it, I want it all, I want it now.
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So you can see the theme of want, so
we’re gonna talk about wanting today.
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And here’s what we wanna say right at the
beginning, because we think that people
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might expect that wanting is bad in some
way from a spiritual sp- perspective,
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that idea that being desireless is good.
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No judgment.
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No judgment.
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Whatever path you’re on.
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But you might be surprised.
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Alchemy is not trying to get rid
of your desires in the beginning.
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It’s- It’s almost kind of like
the opposite of what people
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expect when we talk about this.
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A lot of paths will point you towards
wanting less or being desireless.
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And we go a different way
in Alchemy in the beginning.
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It’s about your passion.
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Your passion comes from your heart,
and if you wanna live a wholehearted
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life, that passion has to be lit.
You’re not trying to put that fire out.
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You want to ignite it.
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You want to engage it.
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You wanna understand it.
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You wanna get to know
what you actually want.
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Yeah, what are you asking
more of this life from?
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What are you asking more about?
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The passion or the wanting
isn’t the challenge here.
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No, the passion is the fuel.
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It’s what we do with it
that gets interesting.
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So then the question is, why are humans
in such a rush to get what they want?
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And they want the good part
of just about everything.
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I know.
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Well, the good part, we don’t
believe in good or bad, right or
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wrong, but the good part here today
is the now, the present moment.
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And I do think, most of us know
that to be true, that the present
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moment, the now, is where it’s at.
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Who could really argue that?
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I don’t know.
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I’d be up for a debate.
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We could see what happens, right?
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But there is only one now.
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That’s- That’s all we have … that’s
really, like Eckhart Tolle, Power of
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Now, if you ha- if you’ve read that
book, he makes that point really well.
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There is only now.
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You, don’t have yesterday.
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You don’t have the next minute even.
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Right.
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Every day of our lives,
all we have is now.
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That’s so true.
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I get it, I get it, I get it.
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But that doesn’t mean we should
stop wanting more, right?
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Well, Alchemy is a journey of
that desire, of that heart wanting
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something more, moving you forward.
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It gives you motivation, and
it’s the question that is asked
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at the beginning of Alchemy.
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But I just wanna, before we go onto that,
I just wanna say not everyone is in a
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place to want more at this very moment.
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Some people may have just come
through some trauma or something
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that’s really challenging, and, the
thing they want is for nothing else
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bad to happen to them o- or their
loved ones, and that’s a completely
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reasonable thing to want as well.
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Yeah.
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It’s a different kind of
wanting though, right?
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They still want that.
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It is.
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And if that’s where you are currently,
Alchemy also can help with that.
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We’re gonna talk a lot about the people
who are seeking and wanting, and if you’re
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in that other place where you just wanna
kind of like- Lay low because -, you know,
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you just don’t want bad things to happen.
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Then Alchemy can help release some of
those ghosts of the past that you’re
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carrying with you from that trauma.
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So that’s cool.
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But- Well, there’s always a but.
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There’s always a but the real work
of Alchemy starts with a question.
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Is there more to life than this?
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And that question, it needs the
person to kind of settle into some
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grounding, some steadiness, that
life is a little bit easy at first.
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And remember, there’s no hurry in Alchemy.
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It’s a journey.
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It’s not a race.
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Yes.
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And what we want, it’s
different for everyone.
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We all want something and, you
know, there’s commonality there.
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A lot of us like love, ease, prosperity
You know, everyone is different though,
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in fact, about w- how they want that.
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I’m not even sure there are two
people on the planet who want exactly
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the same combination of things.
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I think statistically
that could be challenging.
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Yes.
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But… But I think our unique
ways that we want more, that’s
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the best thing about humans.
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Nobody ever built anything
because they were content.
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It’s a bit of a woody perspective.
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Wood don’t like content.
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Yes.
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No.
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Content is not the wood state.
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No.
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Because, you know, for those of you who
are new to the five elements of Chinese
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medicine and the way we teach them,
Wood energy is the energy that moves
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the world forward and gets bleep done.
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Bleep?
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Bleep.
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We can’t say bleep?
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Yeah.
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Bleepity bleep, bleep, bleep.
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That poor bleep word.
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Yes.
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Right?
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You hear three bleeps and you,
someone’s yelling at you bad.
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But yeah.
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Yes.
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So without the wood energy, Leta,
you’re saying there’d be no growth.
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There’d be no growth, and so wood
energy brings growth to all of us.
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It’s the plants bursting through
the ground in the spring, and we
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all need that to get bleep done.
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To get bleep done.
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And remember, everyone has all five
elements in you, so somewhere in
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there you have the bleep in wood.
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Yes.
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Right?
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And, yes, and you also have fire,
which brings the passion we already
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talked about, the passion of the
heart, and you have earth, which
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brings in thought and intention.
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And a safe space, safe container.
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And metal, which helps us
with organization and, like,
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specific things getting done.
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Like a little bit, and also some
respect and some- Yes … like order.
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Yes, and preciseness.
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And then water helps us with
that motivation and momentum.
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And maybe stamina.
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And definitely that stamina there.
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They’re all important.
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Yes, and all five are essential, but
this idea of wanting more or really the
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idea of trying to make things better,
that is very specific to wood energy.
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And you know, I thought of another
really cool thing about wanting.
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Most people don’t know that
the accurate way to look at
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acupuncture meridians on the body
is with your arms above your head.
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Do you want me to, like,
throw my arms up in the air?
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Yeah.
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Boom.
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Hey.
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That’s like touchdown.
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You mean football, right?
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That’s all right.
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We can talk slowly.
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Okay.
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It means touchdown- … when
they score some points.
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Okay.
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All right, so in the touchdown position
with your arms above your head.
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I’m there, yes.
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Go back to the meridians.
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Yes.
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The heart channel then runs up your
arms, and metaphorically what that means
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is that you’re reaching towards heaven.
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Your heart is reaching for more.
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We’re doing it again.
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Spiritual touchdown.
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Yes.
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Woo!
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Woo!
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Spiritual touchdown.
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Yes.
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It’s not just Woody, it’s everyone.
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Yes.
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It’s just everyone who wants to
reach up and want more or celebrate.
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Or like in church when you’re
singing, arms up, or, you know,
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children often raise their arms
to their mom when they want help.
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They wanna be lifted up.
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Yeah.
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It’s very cool-
Yeah … visual there, Leta.
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It’s a great visual.
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And when you think about the spiritual
side of things, you know, whatever the
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highest thing is on your particular
spiritual path, whether it’s Buddhahood,
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immortality, Kundalini, enlightenment,
whatever that tradition promises
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You know, that’s what we want.
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The gurus, the yoginis, the bodhisattvas,
the saints, those are the people
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who inspired us to start the path.
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Yeah, they’re all seeking something.
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Yeah.
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They’re all wanting more in
their own religion or practice.
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Yeah.
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Right?
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So- Yeah, and honestly, I mean, who
wouldn’t want it all right now, you know?
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Yeah.
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That’s, that’s what people
feel when they’re on that
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path and they’re desiring it.
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I do think it’s true for many
people, especially in our younger
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years, in our youth, we may be
more impatient and wanna hurry up.
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as you know, when you meet a young
person, they’re kinda in a hurry usually.
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But honestly, for me, I don’t really
feel that need to go super fast anymore.
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I’ve been working on my
connecting your circles.
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I know you as well, Leta, where you work
on all your five elements, which means
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you can be any element or at any time.
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You don’t have to be one specific element.
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We wrote a book called
Connecting Your Circle- What?
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… that explains how to do that.
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Yeah.
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That’s very cool.
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No.
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so and also with Alchemy, you know,
self-cultivation, thinking about
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the present moment, you know, a
Wu-Wei type of practice, you know,
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I love calling it pure presence.
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this is where I’m at.
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This is, I know where you’re at.
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This is where a lot of our students
that we teach Alchemy, you know,
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but that’s after a lot of work,
a lot of accountability, a lot
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of practice, a lot of dedication.
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Those are the things
that we’re kinda into.
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But I, gotta say, my younger
self, absolutely about the
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express lane, fast pass.
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Totally.
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Right?
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Totally.
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I love the fast pass.
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That’s great.
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Yeah, let’s talk a little bit about the,
Yeah … fast pass, the express lane.
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I think the term that a lot of people
talk about now, is spiritual bypass.
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You know, what do the Alchemists
think about spiritual bypass?
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Well, you know, th- they’re coming out
of this place where they meditated a lot.
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They, you know, they lived in temples
and monasteries, and they fled to
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the mountains with their friends.
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But when they did that,
they went into the caves.
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And you know, in the
caves it’s dark, right?
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And they, were in there for
three months or more at a time.
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So- Yeah, definitely not
a weekend intensive at-
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you know, the retreat center.
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Yes.
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And they meditated in the
dark with very little food.
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We’ve seen the caves in China.
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Yes.
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You know?
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Those are amazing … there are a few
places in the world where you can go to
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a darkened cave experience in the world?
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Not too many.
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I, would imagine they were going there
to un-people, that’s my new phrase now,
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un-people themselves, where they just
need to get away from distractions.
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Even back then, they had distractions
and people wanting attention, and
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now we’re overloaded with that.
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So I’m co- I’m exploring this
concept of, you know, un-peopling.
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Yes.
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And when you un-people and you
don’t have the stimulation or the
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distractions, you often, in that dark,
alone place, you meet your worst fears.
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You could call them the
monsters in the dark.
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And the cool thing about that is when
you spend a lot of time with your
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monsters, you begin to see right through
them, that they’re, not that scary, big
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monster- Yeah … you thought they were.
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and actually, they’re
really all in your mind.
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Yeah.
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I think, you know, theater of the mind.
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And I don’t think un-peopling is that I
don’t like people- Right … or people,
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but you need to get a little retreat from
the constant noise of the world right now.
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Yeah.
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And I think that that’s what they were
doing by going in seclusion of the
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caves- Yeah … or on the mountains.
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Exactly.
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They learned to embrace their own
thoughts and let go of some of those
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desires they’d been reaching for.
407
00:17:05,938 –> 00:17:08,348
But they didn’t do that in the beginning.
408
00:17:08,357 –> 00:17:12,297
There was a lot of prep to get
ready to go into that deep practice.
409
00:17:12,667 –> 00:17:16,687
They also, you know, passed down
their findings in a lineage that
410
00:17:16,688 –> 00:17:18,598
generations since then have followed.
411
00:17:19,017 –> 00:17:22,607
And what they concluded, which is
the thing we most wanna talk about
412
00:17:22,607 –> 00:17:27,897
today, is they mapped out these steps,
and they said, “Okay, as a beginner,
413
00:17:28,277 –> 00:17:32,837
you know, you can, you can take
these steps, but don’t go too fast.”
414
00:17:33,087 –> 00:17:38,418
And they, started out with your
basic human nature before rushing
415
00:17:38,418 –> 00:17:40,727
to the, quote, unquote, good stuff.
416
00:17:40,758 –> 00:17:41,168
Yeah.
417
00:17:41,197 –> 00:17:45,077
I do think that they took
their time and they practiced.
418
00:17:45,328 –> 00:17:48,437
You know, they had to, like,
get comfortable with themselves.
419
00:17:48,477 –> 00:17:49,917
They had that beginner’s mind.
420
00:17:50,148 –> 00:17:51,617
It’s always at the beginning, right?
421
00:17:51,657 –> 00:17:54,357
Like, that’s why they call
it beginner’s mind, Lita.
422
00:17:54,607 –> 00:17:57,897
That’s not advanced mind or jump ahead
mind or let’s hurry up and go mind.
423
00:17:58,137 –> 00:17:59,427
It’s the beginner’s mind.
424
00:17:59,427 –> 00:18:02,587
And I know a lot of people struggle
with… You know, they think it’s
425
00:18:02,587 –> 00:18:06,917
a step backwards to go to the
beginner’s mind, but I always loved
426
00:18:06,927 –> 00:18:08,858
the beginner’s mind, for everything.
427
00:18:08,988 –> 00:18:09,488
Yeah.
428
00:18:10,038 –> 00:18:14,508
And it’s really, you know, this idea
that, like in modern life we’re encouraged
429
00:18:14,518 –> 00:18:19,228
to be on that fast track, fast food,
fast cars, fast talking, fast learning,
430
00:18:19,458 –> 00:18:21,458
which is a very left brain model.
431
00:18:21,458 –> 00:18:21,808
You know?
432
00:18:21,808 –> 00:18:25,408
There’s a limit to the,
that kind of learning.
433
00:18:25,677 –> 00:18:29,788
We actually, you know, in Alchemy we
also really encourage Alchemy and art
434
00:18:29,818 –> 00:18:35,857
because art activates our right brains
and we become more in the present
435
00:18:35,857 –> 00:18:39,967
moment, in that pure presence that
Jaye was talking about where we’re
436
00:18:39,967 –> 00:18:42,848
taking time to think and- And create.
437
00:18:43,077 –> 00:18:43,597
And create.
438
00:18:43,698 –> 00:18:45,708
Yeah Creativity is all
about being in the moment.
439
00:18:45,858 –> 00:18:46,348
Yeah.
440
00:18:46,687 –> 00:18:49,497
And you know- Well, let’s get back
to the Alchemists in the caves.
441
00:18:49,507 –> 00:18:50,007
Yes.
442
00:18:50,077 –> 00:18:50,357
Okay.
443
00:18:50,358 –> 00:18:52,947
They figured out some
things and left us a map.
444
00:18:53,108 –> 00:18:53,528
Yes.
445
00:18:53,538 –> 00:18:54,528
They unpeopled.
446
00:18:54,728 –> 00:18:55,148
Yes.
447
00:18:55,158 –> 00:18:55,498
Right?
448
00:18:55,667 –> 00:18:56,557
But in a good way.
449
00:18:56,597 –> 00:18:57,107
Right.
450
00:18:57,217 –> 00:19:00,807
And they called that map the
nine stages of Alchemy, and the
451
00:19:00,807 –> 00:19:02,858
good news is anyone can do it.
452
00:19:02,947 –> 00:19:06,807
You don’t have to have 30 years of
meditation practice to get started.
453
00:19:06,947 –> 00:19:10,937
Well, and the quote unquote “bad
news,” if you do have 30 years
454
00:19:10,937 –> 00:19:13,278
of meditation practice, you still
have to go back to the beginning.
455
00:19:13,278 –> 00:19:13,288
Yes.
456
00:19:13,288 –> 00:19:15,278
The beginner’s mind.
457
00:19:15,288 –> 00:19:15,318
Yes.
458
00:19:15,328 –> 00:19:16,377
It’s not a bad thing.
459
00:19:16,377 –> 00:19:16,407
yes.
460
00:19:16,617 –> 00:19:17,427
It’s a good thing.
461
00:19:17,527 –> 00:19:19,687
Well, actually, I’d argue
that it’s not bad news at all.
462
00:19:19,687 –> 00:19:19,817
Right.
463
00:19:20,157 –> 00:19:24,217
Even for them, because everybody
assumes that all the transformation
464
00:19:24,248 –> 00:19:29,017
only comes when you get to those high
level transcendent meditations, but
465
00:19:29,358 –> 00:19:33,347
they’ll get there faster if they can
get into altered states, for example.
466
00:19:33,358 –> 00:19:35,157
Th- then they get that transcendence.
467
00:19:35,468 –> 00:19:40,838
But actually, it’s the ordinary
human nature stuff that we work on
468
00:19:40,838 –> 00:19:45,268
in the beginning levels of Alchemy
in our day-to-day lives that brings
469
00:19:45,268 –> 00:19:49,977
the most transformation, and quite
quickly in the big scheme of things.
470
00:19:49,987 –> 00:19:50,157
Yeah.
471
00:19:50,157 –> 00:19:51,568
I think everyone’s on their own path.
472
00:19:51,748 –> 00:19:55,997
But again, no hurry, no right, no
wrong, no good, no fast or slow.
473
00:19:56,157 –> 00:19:56,357
Yes.
474
00:19:56,358 –> 00:19:57,587
It’s what you bring to it.
475
00:19:58,517 –> 00:20:01,997
and so I do think the Alchemists
were not in a hurry, and
476
00:20:01,998 –> 00:20:04,077
they gave us some examples.
477
00:20:04,108 –> 00:20:07,327
You know, they might have taken a long
time to get ready to go to the caves.
478
00:20:07,587 –> 00:20:10,192
Yes, but- And but not everyone in
the caves was doing Alchemy, correct?
479
00:20:10,192 –> 00:20:14,087
Yes, but in the big scheme of things,
you know, where it takes lifetimes
480
00:20:14,087 –> 00:20:16,507
to evolve- Right … Alchemy is
really fast when you think about it.
481
00:20:16,507 –> 00:20:16,587
Right.
482
00:20:16,587 –> 00:20:18,078
So start with the ordinary.
483
00:20:18,287 –> 00:20:18,517
Yes.
484
00:20:18,527 –> 00:20:19,317
Human part life.
485
00:20:19,457 –> 00:20:20,307
Start with right now.
486
00:20:20,307 –> 00:20:21,258
You’re in this lifetime.
487
00:20:21,557 –> 00:20:21,637
Yeah.
488
00:20:21,637 –> 00:20:23,528
You’re in this part, you
need to start here, right?
489
00:20:23,528 –> 00:20:26,978
That was- And, that’s really good news
because it means anyone can do this.
490
00:20:26,987 –> 00:20:27,317
Right.
491
00:20:27,317 –> 00:20:29,038
And that was a big thing in, Alchemy.
492
00:20:29,438 –> 00:20:33,497
Anyone, it didn’t matter whether you
were rich or poor or old or young
493
00:20:33,637 –> 00:20:38,547
or male or female or non-binary,
it was everyone was included.
494
00:20:38,557 –> 00:20:41,317
So you don’t need 20 years of practice.
495
00:20:41,608 –> 00:20:43,227
You don’t need a retreat.
496
00:20:43,267 –> 00:20:47,447
You don’t need to be a
guru or go follow a guru.
497
00:20:47,447 –> 00:20:47,657
Right?
498
00:20:47,658 –> 00:20:49,428
The eight immortals,
they showed it, right?
499
00:20:49,477 –> 00:20:50,308
Yeah, Everyone.
500
00:20:51,167 –> 00:20:54,408
The first thing on the
Alchemy map is so, simple.
501
00:20:54,637 –> 00:20:58,397
It’s just asking, is your
life flowing or is it hard?
502
00:20:58,408 –> 00:21:01,952
And that’s the Basically
stage one of Alchemy.
503
00:21:02,012 –> 00:21:02,671
Yes Right?
504
00:21:02,671 –> 00:21:05,702
That’s the, that’s, I mean, that’s
a very quick version, but that’s it.
505
00:21:05,782 –> 00:21:06,081
Yes.
506
00:21:06,212 –> 00:21:07,732
Is it flowing or is it hard?
507
00:21:07,762 –> 00:21:08,151
Yes.
508
00:21:08,462 –> 00:21:13,881
And it’s that feeling that life is
hard that we’re, you know, we have
509
00:21:13,881 –> 00:21:14,983
to deal with right from the get-go.
510
00:21:14,983 –> 00:21:18,551
And I think everyone at one, some
point in their life knows that feeling.
511
00:21:18,601 –> 00:21:18,921
Yeah.
512
00:21:19,191 –> 00:21:22,791
And we love to talk about it and
share that feeling with others.
513
00:21:22,821 –> 00:21:26,461
You know, that’s, that feeling like
we have to fight for every single
514
00:21:26,462 –> 00:21:30,901
thing we want, like we’re swimming
upstream, where everything’s effortful.
515
00:21:32,052 –> 00:21:35,921
I mean, not, I mean, there’s a whole
company called Life is, Life is Easy.
516
00:21:35,932 –> 00:21:36,841
No, Life is Good.
517
00:21:36,881 –> 00:21:37,451
Life is good.
518
00:21:37,451 –> 00:21:38,322
Life is Good, that T-shirt, right?
519
00:21:38,331 –> 00:21:38,351
Yeah.
520
00:21:38,351 –> 00:21:40,312
Well, what if life is hard is good?
521
00:21:41,041 –> 00:21:41,331
Right?
522
00:21:41,342 –> 00:21:42,781
That means we’re working on our… Wait.
523
00:21:42,861 –> 00:21:43,512
Whoops, sorry.
524
00:21:44,181 –> 00:21:48,751
so you know- And, for me, I know this
personally, ’cause, like, I spent 10 years
525
00:21:48,752 –> 00:21:53,311
trying to write a book, and I’m, I’m,
I’m putting trying in air quotes here.
526
00:21:53,641 –> 00:21:58,871
And, you know, it- It just
never, it, was so much effort.
527
00:21:58,871 –> 00:22:00,361
I was swimming upstream.
528
00:22:00,421 –> 00:22:02,282
And what was the fix for that, Leta?
529
00:22:03,141 –> 00:22:03,627
Woo-hoo.
530
00:22:03,627 –> 00:22:05,433
Well, I had to turn around and
start- Scored the touchdown.
531
00:22:05,433 –> 00:22:05,619
Arms up.
532
00:22:05,619 –> 00:22:05,711
Woo.
533
00:22:05,711 –> 00:22:05,761
Yeah.
534
00:22:07,492 –> 00:22:10,542
I had to start going downstream,
and that’s genuinely it.
535
00:22:10,552 –> 00:22:15,351
Most of stage one is discovering that
the current was never against you,
536
00:22:15,701 –> 00:22:19,881
and what you discover when you do that
is that you were probably standing
537
00:22:19,881 –> 00:22:22,431
in your own way the whole time.
538
00:22:22,651 –> 00:22:26,002
And I mean, sure, there are
situational factors that might have
539
00:22:26,011 –> 00:22:30,322
contributed to that, but mostly it
was really about what you believed.
540
00:22:30,502 –> 00:22:33,721
If you believe that it’s not
going to work, you might as well
541
00:22:33,732 –> 00:22:34,706
be standing in your own way.
542
00:22:34,706 –> 00:22:36,171
You are standing in your own way.
543
00:22:36,182 –> 00:22:36,642
Yeah.
544
00:22:36,711 –> 00:22:39,701
Or at very least, you’ve hooked
an anchor onto the boat that’s
545
00:22:39,701 –> 00:22:41,931
holding you to float downstream.
546
00:22:42,041 –> 00:22:42,291
Yes.
547
00:22:42,291 –> 00:22:43,002
It’s holding you back.
548
00:22:43,052 –> 00:22:43,322
Yes.
549
00:22:43,631 –> 00:22:48,831
those are the things, the, that will
stop you from flowing with ease.
550
00:22:48,932 –> 00:22:49,382
Yes.
551
00:22:49,781 –> 00:22:55,471
And if you’re doing Alchemy, and you start
feeling like life could be or actually
552
00:22:55,482 –> 00:23:02,231
might be easy, you start to feel like,
“Hey, maybe I got this. Maybe I can do my
553
00:23:02,231 –> 00:23:08,541
life now.” And you start feeling hope and
a feeling of movement or even momentum.
554
00:23:08,661 –> 00:23:11,081
Yeah, and I think that when we
do the Alchemy Life Strategy
555
00:23:11,101 –> 00:23:12,681
sessions, this is a big theme of it.
556
00:23:12,951 –> 00:23:14,151
Can you get momentum?
557
00:23:14,201 –> 00:23:15,881
Can you feel the ease?
558
00:23:16,201 –> 00:23:19,272
And definitely in the early stages
of Alchemy, it really does help
559
00:23:19,272 –> 00:23:21,241
to, look at these challenges.
560
00:23:21,351 –> 00:23:23,282
Yeah, and you always say baby steps, Jaye.
561
00:23:23,301 –> 00:23:24,061
Right, baby steps.
562
00:23:24,061 –> 00:23:25,311
It’s little steps- Momentum
563
00:23:25,351 –> 00:23:27,091
that starts to bring the momentum.
564
00:23:27,451 –> 00:23:32,892
And then when you start getting that
ease, invariably you move into stage
565
00:23:32,892 –> 00:23:37,591
two of Alchemy, and stage two is
when life is easy enough that you
566
00:23:37,591 –> 00:23:39,771
can begin to reflect on the past.
567
00:23:40,121 –> 00:23:43,101
And when you do that, you start
to remember all the hurts from the
568
00:23:43,112 –> 00:23:44,982
past, and then the good stuff, too.
569
00:23:45,401 –> 00:23:50,371
And all of that stuff starts to
surface, mostly because your present
570
00:23:50,381 –> 00:23:52,881
life isn’t so full of drama anymore.
571
00:23:53,191 –> 00:23:57,221
And when they surface, you wanna
figure out how to let it go.
572
00:23:57,261 –> 00:24:00,421
How to let go of that bleeping
baggage of this lifetime, right?
573
00:24:00,461 –> 00:24:00,491
Yes.
574
00:24:00,841 –> 00:24:03,362
Old hurts that maybe you never put away.
575
00:24:03,362 –> 00:24:04,502
They’re tucked in there.
576
00:24:04,851 –> 00:24:08,331
You know, this, you’ve built this
armor on, you know, around your heart.
577
00:24:08,361 –> 00:24:11,352
Think of armor as about protection,
but it’s also- Yeah … big and
578
00:24:11,361 –> 00:24:14,612
heavy and, you know, you can’t
really move around too much in it.
579
00:24:14,612 –> 00:24:16,052
It’s all that guarding.
580
00:24:16,262 –> 00:24:17,762
Yeah, and ex- it’s exhausting.
581
00:24:17,762 –> 00:24:18,751
It’s exhausting, yes.
582
00:24:18,751 –> 00:24:19,171
Yeah.
583
00:24:19,542 –> 00:24:25,151
And the hurt happened a long time ago,
but the guarding is running every day,
584
00:24:25,182 –> 00:24:30,261
protecting you in every part of your
daily life forevermore, and that’s what’s
585
00:24:30,372 –> 00:24:33,321
actually the most draining and exhausting.
586
00:24:33,671 –> 00:24:38,131
And what surprises people who’ve
done decades of personal work or
587
00:24:38,131 –> 00:24:42,662
spiritual work, when they start doing
stage two of Alchemy, they report
588
00:24:42,662 –> 00:24:46,711
back that they thought they dealt
with these things through therapy or
589
00:24:46,711 –> 00:24:48,942
meditation, all types of spiritual work.
590
00:24:49,518 –> 00:24:55,108
But it’s stage two that actually helped
them not feel triggered anymore, and
591
00:24:55,108 –> 00:24:56,958
that’s, that’s what happens a lot.
592
00:24:56,988 –> 00:24:58,818
The wound finally gets quiet.
593
00:24:58,818 –> 00:25:02,637
Yeah, the guard, so to
speak, can finally retire.
594
00:25:02,748 –> 00:25:05,868
Yeah, and 20 years
later, no more guarding.
595
00:25:05,868 –> 00:25:08,708
That is, like, so freeing.
596
00:25:08,967 –> 00:25:13,167
And when you feel really good in yourself
and you no longer need to protect
597
00:25:13,268 –> 00:25:19,158
and guard, then stage three naturally
arrives, and it is kind of the strangest
598
00:25:19,158 –> 00:25:21,307
one in the nine stages of Alchemy.
599
00:25:21,648 –> 00:25:25,738
It’s about the parts of your life you just
don’t understand because it wasn’t even
600
00:25:25,738 –> 00:25:31,027
yours, like family patterns and things
that came down through your ancestry
601
00:25:31,027 –> 00:25:36,428
or from your past lives, things you
keep doing that you can’t explain why.
602
00:25:36,998 –> 00:25:41,937
And stage three helps you release those
mysterious influences on your life.
603
00:25:42,067 –> 00:25:42,897
Well, that’s really great.
604
00:25:42,897 –> 00:25:45,017
I love the way you just kind
of, like, summarized that.
605
00:25:45,018 –> 00:25:46,258
But I’ll do a quick summary.
606
00:25:46,268 –> 00:25:47,958
S- three stages.
607
00:25:47,987 –> 00:25:50,728
Up first, stage one, is life hard?
608
00:25:51,167 –> 00:25:51,997
That’s the question.
609
00:25:52,198 –> 00:25:52,668
Yes.
610
00:25:52,757 –> 00:25:54,898
Stage two, what are you guarding against?
611
00:25:54,907 –> 00:25:59,344
Mm. And stage three What did you inherit?
612
00:25:59,734 –> 00:26:00,494
Yes Right?
613
00:26:00,494 –> 00:26:03,934
Like those are the simplest
questions which we pull out in
614
00:26:03,934 –> 00:26:08,234
meditations and, you know, exercises
and different things that we do.
615
00:26:08,364 –> 00:26:11,664
And all of it comes before any of
the high level work that most of
616
00:26:11,664 –> 00:26:13,694
us want to find the fast track to.
617
00:26:13,744 –> 00:26:19,304
Yeah, and then what I love about this
work, it sounds hard, but it’s fun.
618
00:26:19,324 –> 00:26:20,284
It’s not grim.
619
00:26:20,324 –> 00:26:24,684
It’s really… It’s about, you
know, really looking at yourself.
620
00:26:24,754 –> 00:26:30,463
Yeah, and, surprisingly, it’s, it’s, it
is fun because, you know, people assume
621
00:26:30,474 –> 00:26:34,833
doing deep work means years of crying on
a couch, and actually, when it happens in
622
00:26:35,114 –> 00:26:36,924
Alchemy- Just hours crying on the couch.
623
00:26:39,723 –> 00:26:40,013
Yes.
624
00:26:40,053 –> 00:26:42,513
We do compress a lot- And we compress
… if you do one of those sessions.
625
00:26:42,533 –> 00:26:46,063
Yes, and we’re working with… A
lot of times we’re working with the
626
00:26:46,083 –> 00:26:52,703
acupoints themselves, and energy work,
and meditation, and that combination,
627
00:26:52,743 –> 00:26:55,603
things start to release on their
own, and I like to say organically.
628
00:26:56,594 –> 00:26:57,653
We’re not forcing it.
629
00:26:57,653 –> 00:26:59,484
Nobody’s excavating anything.
630
00:26:59,493 –> 00:26:59,703
Yeah.
631
00:26:59,703 –> 00:27:00,194
It just happens.
632
00:27:00,194 –> 00:27:03,984
Definitely more of a gentle mindset,
and that’s usually, like, sometimes
633
00:27:04,024 –> 00:27:07,334
almost even shockingly different
people, but… ‘Cause it works.
634
00:27:07,334 –> 00:27:09,464
It’s gentle and it moves things.
635
00:27:09,503 –> 00:27:12,744
You know, we’re not trying to
scare things or shock things.
636
00:27:13,053 –> 00:27:16,113
You know, they can go through
little challenging times, but
637
00:27:16,113 –> 00:27:18,243
then they surface fairly quickly.
638
00:27:18,244 –> 00:27:19,654
In a new way they feel better.
639
00:27:19,664 –> 00:27:20,743
It’s really about freedom.
640
00:27:20,973 –> 00:27:21,503
Yeah.
641
00:27:21,653 –> 00:27:22,153
Freedom.
642
00:27:22,204 –> 00:27:26,234
Yep, and people who’ve meditat-
meditated for 20-plus years say the
643
00:27:26,234 –> 00:27:31,263
same thing to us over and over again,
that something shifted that maybe all
644
00:27:31,393 –> 00:27:33,283
that meditation somehow couldn’t touch.
645
00:27:33,323 –> 00:27:37,553
Which is not any kind of diss on
meditation or self-cultivation,
646
00:27:37,553 –> 00:27:38,553
whatever you’re doing.
647
00:27:38,564 –> 00:27:41,924
It’s just that this is what
we’ve seen over the years.
648
00:27:41,963 –> 00:27:42,333
Yeah.
649
00:27:42,344 –> 00:27:43,433
Over and over and over.
650
00:27:43,493 –> 00:27:44,743
It’s just- It’s just something.
651
00:27:44,753 –> 00:27:45,353
A- Yeah.
652
00:27:45,373 –> 00:27:48,753
It’s just that some things don’t
move when you just sit with them.
653
00:27:48,763 –> 00:27:50,333
They move by being met.
654
00:27:50,573 –> 00:27:53,723
Okay, that just seems like a
natural segue to some homework.
655
00:27:53,783 –> 00:27:54,213
Okay.
656
00:27:54,403 –> 00:27:55,183
Make it easy.
657
00:27:55,393 –> 00:27:55,583
Yeah.
658
00:27:55,583 –> 00:27:59,373
Let’s have really, easy, and let’s
just do a couple things before we
659
00:27:59,373 –> 00:28:00,703
get to that meditation at the end.
660
00:28:00,704 –> 00:28:00,954
Yeah.
661
00:28:00,954 –> 00:28:02,483
Two things, both doable.
662
00:28:03,063 –> 00:28:03,983
Well, I like that.
663
00:28:03,993 –> 00:28:04,023
Yes.
664
00:28:04,073 –> 00:28:05,723
Anything doable is good in my book.
665
00:28:05,733 –> 00:28:05,763
Yes.
666
00:28:05,763 –> 00:28:09,604
All right, so number one,
notice how you reach in life.
667
00:28:10,204 –> 00:28:10,863
Catch yourself.
668
00:28:11,364 –> 00:28:12,553
Are you trying to skip ahead?
669
00:28:12,594 –> 00:28:13,514
Are you trying to go fast?
670
00:28:13,514 –> 00:28:14,513
Are you trying to fudge it?
671
00:28:14,534 –> 00:28:16,723
That’s a good word we didn’t talk
about today, fudging it, right?
672
00:28:16,733 –> 00:28:17,003
Yes.
673
00:28:17,053 –> 00:28:18,243
Where did that word come from?
674
00:28:18,303 –> 00:28:19,344
More fudge, right?
675
00:28:19,344 –> 00:28:20,013
Yeah, more fudge.
676
00:28:20,103 –> 00:28:20,293
Right?
677
00:28:20,394 –> 00:28:20,884
More is good.
678
00:28:20,993 –> 00:28:21,233
Right.
679
00:28:22,163 –> 00:28:23,673
are you trying to find the shortcut?
680
00:28:23,723 –> 00:28:27,133
Are… And, not trying to fix it,
you’re just trying to, like, bypass
681
00:28:27,133 –> 00:28:29,233
it or, you know, no judgment.
682
00:28:29,513 –> 00:28:32,743
Just notice how often you’re
trying to skip these steps.
683
00:28:33,998 –> 00:28:34,748
Down the road.
684
00:28:34,838 –> 00:28:37,058
Yeah Or are you trying to,
like- Ooh, skipping sounds fun
685
00:28:37,058 –> 00:28:38,338
skipping’s a good word too, right?
686
00:28:39,168 –> 00:28:40,748
So just little things,
so like observation.
687
00:28:42,137 –> 00:28:43,268
are you trying to move too fast?
688
00:28:43,418 –> 00:28:43,788
Yeah.
689
00:28:43,887 –> 00:28:44,327
There you go.
690
00:28:44,588 –> 00:28:48,497
And number two, which is harder,
name something that you’re
691
00:28:48,688 –> 00:28:50,238
still protecting against.
692
00:28:50,238 –> 00:28:54,257
Like, you have this guard that is
just watching out all the time,
693
00:28:54,668 –> 00:28:57,757
and maybe you thought it was over.
694
00:28:58,027 –> 00:29:00,567
Like, maybe you thought you dealt
with that already, but then you just
695
00:29:00,568 –> 00:29:04,428
notice, “Oh, I’m getting triggered by
whatever,” and I- And that might come
696
00:29:04,428 –> 00:29:07,878
out through the meditations- Yep … or
some, just some self-reflection.
697
00:29:08,288 –> 00:29:10,347
And you don’t have to
do anything about it.
698
00:29:10,347 –> 00:29:12,537
You don’t have to fix it or
process it or cry about it.
699
00:29:12,557 –> 00:29:13,788
We just want you to observe.
700
00:29:13,838 –> 00:29:14,218
Yeah.
701
00:29:14,417 –> 00:29:18,547
And you just admit that it’s there,
and then that’s part of stage two.
702
00:29:18,858 –> 00:29:20,857
And, you know, that’s a lot of the work.
703
00:29:21,338 –> 00:29:22,687
In air quotes on work.
704
00:29:22,728 –> 00:29:22,978
Yes.
705
00:29:23,018 –> 00:29:26,798
But it’s, it’s self-work, so it
should be somewhat enjoyable even
706
00:29:26,798 –> 00:29:31,057
if it’s not, like, “Woo-hoo,”
but it’s like, “Oh, really?” Yes.
707
00:29:31,057 –> 00:29:31,257
You know?
708
00:29:31,257 –> 00:29:32,508
It’s still good work.
709
00:29:32,607 –> 00:29:32,987
Yeah.
710
00:29:33,137 –> 00:29:36,507
And if you want some help
getting your Alchemy started,
711
00:29:36,917 –> 00:29:39,147
we talked about that meditation.
712
00:29:39,167 –> 00:29:41,108
I want- So is that the
third part of the homework?
713
00:29:41,148 –> 00:29:41,678
Yes.
714
00:29:41,718 –> 00:29:42,038
Okay.
715
00:29:42,117 –> 00:29:45,798
I want it all meditation for you, but
it’s actually- No, it’s what do I really
716
00:29:45,798 –> 00:29:47,077
want … it’s what do I really want.
717
00:29:47,147 –> 00:29:48,057
We could’ve called it that, but no.
718
00:29:48,057 –> 00:29:48,467
Yes.
719
00:29:48,467 –> 00:29:53,048
It’s, What if we… Okay,
here’s how we set it up.
720
00:29:53,487 –> 00:29:58,797
What if- What if … what if
we gave you permission to want
721
00:29:58,877 –> 00:30:01,647
whatever you actually want?
722
00:30:02,926 –> 00:30:05,616
That what if, you said what if-
Sure … we have a what if T-shirt.
723
00:30:06,025 –> 00:30:08,696
If you could have truly- But
first you have to, might have
724
00:30:08,706 –> 00:30:10,235
to find out what that is.
725
00:30:10,356 –> 00:30:10,846
Right.
726
00:30:11,216 –> 00:30:15,316
So if you could have truly anything
you want, what would it be?
727
00:30:15,316 –> 00:30:17,783
This is actually a harder
question than it sounds.
728
00:30:17,783 –> 00:30:18,716
Of course it is.
729
00:30:19,186 –> 00:30:20,685
That’s why I said it’s like,
oh, just a simple easy question.
730
00:30:20,696 –> 00:30:20,716
Yeah.
731
00:30:20,725 –> 00:30:21,565
What do I really want?
732
00:30:21,565 –> 00:30:24,095
It’s the really is the challenging part.
733
00:30:24,235 –> 00:30:24,395
Yes.
734
00:30:24,395 –> 00:30:25,715
What do I really want?
735
00:30:25,826 –> 00:30:26,446
Yes.
736
00:30:26,535 –> 00:30:28,785
So we’re giving that for everyone free.
737
00:30:28,846 –> 00:30:31,135
You can take it, you can listen
to it, you can do it, you can
738
00:30:31,135 –> 00:30:33,525
do woo-hoo, spiritual touchdown.
739
00:30:33,615 –> 00:30:33,645
Yes.
740
00:30:33,645 –> 00:30:34,556
Put your arms up.
741
00:30:35,065 –> 00:30:36,045
Want more.
742
00:30:36,045 –> 00:30:36,315
Want more.
743
00:30:36,315 –> 00:30:37,515
Ask better questions.
744
00:30:37,765 –> 00:30:41,595
And I think most of us have stopped
asking what we really want in life.
745
00:30:41,745 –> 00:30:42,206
Yeah.
746
00:30:42,325 –> 00:30:45,635
And maybe you’re just stuck in what,
not even searching for it anymore.
747
00:30:45,815 –> 00:30:49,845
So we’re giving you the invitation
to, if you want, explore more
748
00:30:49,845 –> 00:30:51,155
of this in your, in your life.
749
00:30:51,895 –> 00:30:52,245
Yes.
750
00:30:52,286 –> 00:30:56,076
And in- the meditation is about 20
minutes long, so you don’t- It’s guided.
751
00:30:56,126 –> 00:30:56,466
Yep.
752
00:30:56,525 –> 00:30:58,196
And you don’t need to
know anything to do it.
753
00:30:58,896 –> 00:31:01,846
To get the meditation, go to
alchemylearningcenter.com-
754
00:31:01,846 –> 00:31:01,876
.com … slash want.
755
00:31:01,876 –> 00:31:01,916
Back slash or slash?
756
00:31:01,916 –> 00:31:01,936
Back slash.
757
00:31:01,936 –> 00:31:02,006
do they call it back slash?
758
00:31:02,006 –> 00:31:02,016
Want.
759
00:31:02,016 –> 00:31:02,066
I don’t… I think so.
760
00:31:02,066 –> 00:31:02,126
It sounds less violent than slash.
761
00:31:02,126 –> 00:31:02,166
Yeah, back slash want.
762
00:31:02,166 –> 00:31:02,176
W-A-N-T.
763
00:31:02,176 –> 00:31:06,815
So Alchemy Center,
alchemylearningcenter.com/want.
764
00:31:20,085 –> 00:31:20,565
Wow.
765
00:31:20,705 –> 00:31:26,186
And if, you do it, if you do the
meditation and you find at first nothing
766
00:31:26,195 –> 00:31:27,856
happens, you’re not- Do it a couple times.
767
00:31:27,906 –> 00:31:28,306
Yep.
768
00:31:28,306 –> 00:31:31,675
Just sit there and-
There’s no pass or fail.
769
00:31:31,725 –> 00:31:32,255
Yeah.
770
00:31:32,255 –> 00:31:33,666
You just- You just keep going.
771
00:31:33,695 –> 00:31:34,035
Yeah.
772
00:31:34,045 –> 00:31:36,906
You want the answer to arrive,
and sometimes it takes some
773
00:31:36,906 –> 00:31:38,466
time, so do it a few times.
774
00:31:38,975 –> 00:31:41,376
And even when nothing
comes, that’s information.
775
00:31:41,376 –> 00:31:45,086
That’s exactly what we’re talking
about, just slowing down, sitting.
776
00:31:45,585 –> 00:31:45,835
Yeah.
777
00:31:45,995 –> 00:31:50,226
This week is about slowing down,
saying, “Hey, is there more to life
778
00:31:50,226 –> 00:31:52,440
than this?” What do I really want?
779
00:31:52,750 –> 00:31:53,120
Yeah.
780
00:31:53,360 –> 00:31:53,740
Right?
781
00:31:53,800 –> 00:31:56,500
You actually have to get quiet
and slow down to get the answer.
782
00:31:56,500 –> 00:31:56,649
Right.
783
00:31:56,649 –> 00:32:00,136
You might not have to go to
a cave, but- Yes, but kind of
784
00:32:00,136 –> 00:32:01,270
like a- Think about that image
785
00:32:01,320 –> 00:32:02,830
yeah, like a little mini retreat.
786
00:32:02,909 –> 00:32:03,199
Right.
787
00:32:03,510 –> 00:32:03,879
Okay.
788
00:32:04,179 –> 00:32:09,439
And next week, pod 149, we’ll be
talking about what happens the second
789
00:32:09,480 –> 00:32:14,960
you do want something, because for
most people it doesn’t take long,
790
00:32:14,960 –> 00:32:18,760
like two seconds, and your mind
starts building the case against.
791
00:32:18,869 –> 00:32:19,719
“I can’t do it.
792
00:32:19,720 –> 00:32:20,659
I don’t have enough money.
793
00:32:20,659 –> 00:32:21,569
I don’t have enough time.
794
00:32:21,570 –> 00:32:24,709
I, da, da, da, da, da, da, da, da,
da, da,” fill in the blank, right?
795
00:32:24,709 –> 00:32:27,409
It’s constant, and most of
us aren’t even aware of it.
796
00:32:27,629 –> 00:32:29,989
So that’s why we don’t ask
for things as much anymore.
797
00:32:30,220 –> 00:32:33,419
Sometimes we just reach out and
take, or we don’t expect it or…
798
00:32:33,420 –> 00:32:37,709
But this is actually a path to
see what your heart really wants.
799
00:32:37,830 –> 00:32:41,080
And it’s really human nature, and there’s
a name for it in Chinese medicine.
800
00:32:41,379 –> 00:32:44,509
It’s called Rebellious Qi,
and it’s not a metaphor.
801
00:32:44,549 –> 00:32:46,490
It’s an actual physical thing.
802
00:32:46,639 –> 00:32:49,419
I really… I, can’t wait to talk
more about that, ’cause we talk a
803
00:32:49,419 –> 00:32:50,909
lot about that in our other podcast.
804
00:32:51,279 –> 00:32:55,599
We also have some, activities in
the learning center to address that.
805
00:32:55,609 –> 00:32:55,639
Yes.
806
00:32:55,719 –> 00:32:56,659
All kinds of stuff, right?
807
00:32:56,659 –> 00:32:58,770
It’s a v- it’s a real
thing, but it’s not…
808
00:32:58,789 –> 00:33:00,239
It’s something that you can work on.
809
00:33:00,249 –> 00:33:03,129
It’s like a muscle that you can
flex- Yes … that you can work on.
810
00:33:03,249 –> 00:33:03,479
Yes.
811
00:33:03,890 –> 00:33:08,119
And then we’re going to have another
episode that’s- Wow, you’re really
812
00:33:08,170 –> 00:33:09,219
jumping ahead here … tied into this.
813
00:33:09,219 –> 00:33:10,220
I’ll just tell you a little bit.
814
00:33:10,249 –> 00:33:15,200
In pod 150 we’re gonna get to a really
important topic, which is the Wu-Wei
815
00:33:15,200 –> 00:33:17,340
state that we’ve been talking about.
816
00:33:17,369 –> 00:33:20,789
But wait, stay in the present moment-
Yes … and stay with this podcast first.
817
00:33:20,789 –> 00:33:23,959
But then go and wait and
ahead, and it’s coming.
818
00:33:24,170 –> 00:33:26,119
But no, we’re building a
little anticipation here.
819
00:33:26,149 –> 00:33:29,780
But, Jaye, it’s pod 150, so- I
know … it’s a very important number.
820
00:33:29,780 –> 00:33:30,060
It’s big.
821
00:33:30,069 –> 00:33:33,819
So … All right, so stay with
us, you know, and check it
822
00:33:33,819 –> 00:33:36,230
out, those, upcoming podcasts.
823
00:33:36,619 –> 00:33:37,719
Any final thoughts, Jaye?
824
00:33:37,719 –> 00:33:38,739
Yeah, arms together
825
00:33:42,189 –> 00:33:42,209
up.
826
00:33:43,369 –> 00:33:43,539
Yay.
827
00:33:43,539 –> 00:33:44,067
Woo-hoo, spiritual touchdown.
828
00:33:44,067 –> 00:33:44,594
You scored- All right.
829
00:33:44,594 –> 00:33:45,121
Yay … for the win.
830
00:33:45,121 –> 00:33:45,384
Woo-hoo.
831
00:33:45,384 –> 00:33:45,516
Bye.
832
00:33:45,516 –> 00:33:45,780
All right.
833
00:33:45,780 –> 00:33:46,770
So stay curious.
834
00:33:47,299 –> 00:33:49,499
You’ve been listening to the
Inspired Action Alchemy podcast,
835
00:33:50,299 –> 00:33:51,079
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836
00:33:51,479 –> 00:33:52,109
Woo-hoo.
837
00:33:52,109 –> 00:33:53,100
Woo-hoo.
838
00:33:53,100 –> 00:33:55,870
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839
00:33:56,170 –> 00:33:57,679
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840
00:33:57,959 –> 00:34:01,060
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841
00:34:01,299 –> 00:34:04,389
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843
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00:34:12,110 –> 00:34:15,109
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850
00:34:35,789 –> 00:34:38,780
Yes, thank you for listening, and
remember to hug the dog, and, you know,
851
00:34:38,829 –> 00:34:42,109
give yourself a hug, too, because you
both probably deserve a really nice hug.
852
00:34:43,277 –> 00:34:44,857
Yourself Yes, hug yourself.
853
00:34:45,467 –> 00:34:47,308
Go ahead, hug your– see,
that seems funny, right?
854
00:34:47,457 –> 00:34:49,267
Just wrap your arms around,
give a little wiggle.
855
00:34:49,308 –> 00:34:49,828
It’s easy.